Misdiagnosis happens more often than you think, and it occurs more frequently for older adults than for others. There are myriad reasons why: Symptoms of many health concerns mimic or overlap those of other conditions, and older adults typically have multiple health issues. Disease symptoms can present differently in older adults. A medical professional may overlook symptoms, order a wrong test, misread results, or misattribute something to normal aging. And sometimes the symptoms themselves aren’t well remembered or are hard for the older adult to describe.
If your loved one is undergoing treatment but not improving, or if they have received a life-changing diagnosis, it may be wise to ask for a second opinion. This is not an outrageous or offensive request. In fact, it’s pretty commonly done. Here are some tips to help you advocate for your relative:
Listen to your instinct. If something about your loved one feels off, speak up! You know them best.
Talk to the primary care physician. Ask your relative’s doctor whom to see for a second opinion. Perhaps another local physician or an out-of-town specialist. Ideally, a geriatrician. You can also look online or ask friends and family members for a recommendation.
Go prepared. The more information about your loved one’s situation you can share, the better. Before you go, gather relevant test results, treatment plans, and prescriptions. Make notes to share about family history and new or worsening symptoms. Have medical records sent to the new provider. Bring a list of questions to ask. And send those questions to the doctor ahead of time, too. You might ask about prognosis and how they ruled out other diagnoses. Also, the risks, benefits, and effectiveness of the proposed treatment. And if any other treatments are available.
Stay attuned. If things still feel “off,” it’s appropriate to ask for a third opinion to ensure your loved one is getting the treatment they need.
Need help advocating for an older adult?
As the Roanoke and Lynchburg experts in family caregiving, we at Gentle Shepherd Hospice know it’s troubling to have lingering doubts when your loved one’s health is faltering. We are very experienced with helping families navigate the medical system. Give us a call at 1-800-789-0586 (toll-free) to learn more.
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