People with congestive heart failure (CHF) often tire easily, especially if they exert themselves. In CHF, the heart is swollen with fluids and cannot beat efficiently. The body's cells then become hungry for oxygen. If your loved one has CHF, you witness this in his...

What do you do when sweet Mom starts cursing angrily? When straitlaced Dad makes off-color remarks?   In persons with dementia, these behaviors are not on purpose. They are caused by the brain changes of the disease. If you can’t find humor in the situation, draw...

Bathing brings many discomforts. Bathrooms can feel cold and drafty when a person is wet. And running water can be noisy. Nudity makes bathing very intimate, which can be distressing when a modest person needs help and may not recognize the helper. Plus, bathing is a...

Many of us admire people who have the gift of remaining calm. Calm as a signature strength is the ability to respond to threats from a place of appropriate confidence. To remain "centered." It's not always easy to achieve. Our bodies react to the stresses of modern...

No one can keep an eye on another person 24/7. Even in the most vigilant household, a loved one with dementia—Alzheimer's or other memory disorder—may just find a way to slip out the door. After you have set up strategies to reduce the chance of wandering, it is also...

It is natural to fear that a loved one with dementia may wander. Indeed, 60% of people with Alzheimer's do get restless and head out the door. As a family member, you can't be watchful every minute. But you can take steps to reduce the chance of wandering. The many...

Here's some good news to start the year! In 2019, we'll see improvements in coverage across the major Medicare plans. About two-thirds of people on Medicare use "original Medicare." Patients with original Medicare can go to any health care provider that accepts...

When your schedule gets tight, is sleep one of the first things to go? According to the experts, that’s all too common. And it makes about as much sense as deciding to do without food, air, or water. Sleep is that essential. Most adults need 6 to 8 hours of sleep per...

After the hubbub of the holidays and in the darkest nights at year's end, nature seems to beckon us to reflect. Rather than make a resolution about exercise or diet, consider looking at your approach to family caregiving and personal qualities you might nurture to...

Burnout is more than stress. And it isn’t just undesirable. It’s a risky condition. The consequences of burnout include emotional depletion, often leading to depression; reduced resistance to common illnesses, such as colds and flu; increased likelihood of a chronic...