Gentle Shepherd Blog
Our team at Gentle Shepherd Hospice wants you to have the practical information you need to make the most of every day. Check out these helpful articles and devotionals written by Kim Eckenroth our co-founder and VP of patient care.
Nonverbal signs of pain
Dementia itself does not cause physical pain. But people with dementia still encounter pain, just like anyone else: headaches, arthritis, tummy aches. They just can't describe it. They might even deny having pain when you ask because they don't understand the...
BPH: Weighing surgical options
Ever wondered why older men seem to need to urinate frequently? An enlarged prostate gland is likely to blame. The condition, benign prostatic hyperplasia, or BPH, is so common that it affects 90% of men by age 80. The prostate gland is roughly donut shaped and is...
Getting the most from doctor visits
Time with a doctor is precious—and that creates pressure to make the most of each visit. Whether your loved one's next appointment is in person or through telehealth, a little preplanning will go a long way to making it a productive session. Here are some helpful...
“But I wasn’t there when she died”
Many of us hold unconscious covenants with our kin. Among the most poignant, perhaps, is a commitment to "be there" when death is near. As adults, we may feel an obligation, and an honor, to be with our parents as they leave, just as they helped us enter. With our...
Caregiving as a team
Millennials and Gen Xers are using strategies that might benefit family caregivers of all ages. Nearly half (47%) of adults in their 40s and 50s now find themselves "in the sandwich." They serve as primary support people for an aging parent. Plus, they have children...
Repetitive questions
"When are we going out?" A reasonable question under normal circumstances. But if the person you care for has dementia, you may get this question multiple times in an hour. Aargh! Indeed, repetitive questions are one of the top irritants mentioned by family caregivers...
Help prevent choking
Swallowing involves the coordination of many muscles in the mouth and throat. The action pushes chewed food down toward the stomach. At the same time, the throat needs to close off the windpipe to the lungs. Between 15% and 20% of older adults have trouble swallowing....
How to beat “decision fatigue”
Caring for an ill family member often requires taking on the role of “decision maker.” Sometimes it’s multiple mundane decisions (Should you ask your sister to do the shopping? Is this a good day to shower Mom? Now or after lunch?). And sometimes it’s several...
Osteoporosis: What you can do
If you are concerned about a loved one's osteoporosis—brittle bones—it's a good idea to bring this up with the doctor. He or she will likely discuss various medicines that can help. In addition, changes in daily life outlined below can go a long way to making stronger...
In Our Words: Fear Not the Unknown
Carey Frost-Perdue, Administrative Assistant for Administration, shared some thoughts with staff this afternoon. We thought you might appreciate this as much as we did. Living in today’s world as of today, is drastically different than what we were used to back in...
What’s in an Alzheimer’s test?
When symptoms of memory loss or confused thinking arise, it's natural to wonder: Is it Alzheimer's? There is no specific test for Alzheimer's disease. To achieve a diagnosis, doctors typically order a variety of tests. Most of the tests are to rule out the many, many...
The importance of staying connected
Staying connected is extremely important. Isolation and loneliness are not just sad situations. They have been shown to increase the likelihood of dementia, depression, and heart disease in older adults. Even early death. As a family caregiver, you may be struggling...