When reasoning becomes a concern

When reasoning becomes a concern

When an aging loved one starts making what you consider poor decisions, it’s worrisome. Are they no longer thinking straight? Is this normal aging or something more serious? There are two terms to know when concerns arise about cognition: capacity and...
Options for taking a break from caregiving

Options for taking a break from caregiving

If you’re providing care for your loved one, you may long for a night to call your own. Better yet, a few days and nights of R&R. Go to bed when you’re ready, sleep deeply, and do what you want all day! A respite break isn’t indulgent, it’s...
Using distraction in dementia care

Using distraction in dementia care

If the person you care for has a problem with memory loss (dementia), you may find that they get agitated about things that don’t make sense. Your long-retired dad, for instance, may wake up in the mornings and insist, “I have to go to work!” It can...
Managing anger as a family caregiver

Managing anger as a family caregiver

Anger as an emotion is neither good nor bad. It is a messenger. It can provide energy and motivate you to action. Chances are you have felt angry at some point during your experience of caring for a loved one. It’s normal! However, anger by itself has never...
Getting them ready to fly?

Getting them ready to fly?

Is air travel coming up for your older relative? These tips can make it an easier, less stressful experience for both of you. Preflight planning Check with their doctor. Get an “okay” for travel by air. Ask for a note to support any special assistance...
Preventing aspiration pneumonia

Preventing aspiration pneumonia

Many people hear of aspiration pneumonia when it’s already too late: their loved one has the diagnosis. This doesn’t have to be you. Aspiration pneumonia is preventable. It occurs when foreign matter, such as food or saliva, is breathed (aspirated) into...